| Loving, Nourishing Behavior | Unloving, Depriving Behavior | |
| Respectful | Disrespectful | |
| Understanding | Rude, Contemptuous | |
| Encouraging | Discouraging | |
| Patient | Impatient | |
| Supportive | Unsupportive | |
| Appreciative, Thankful | Ungrateful | |
| Affectionate, Touching | Withholding, Withdrawn | |
| Warm, Smiling | Cold, Curt, Aloof | |
| Soft, Gentle, Tender | Hard, Harsh | |
| Giving | Selfish, Self-Centered | |
| Accepting | Rejecting | |
| Thoughtful, Considerate | Unthinking, Unkind | |
| Compassionate, Empathic | Unsympatheitc | |
| Acknowledging | Critical | |
| Aware, Mindful | Self Absorbed, Busy | |
| Listening and Hearing | Listening to Self ONLY |







